How to remove yourself from That's Them

That's Them's free opt-out form is at thatsthem.com/optout. It asks for your full name, street address, city, state, ZIP, email and phone, with no ID. The site says requests are typically processed within 72 hours and confirms by email.

By the editors of ProtectYour.com Last reviewed October 19, 2026 3 min read

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Key takeaways

Go to thatsthem.com/optout and fill in the single form: name, street address, city, state, ZIP, email and phone.
No ID and no account. That's Them says requests are typically processed within 72 hours, with a confirmation email.
The opt-out removes your data from That's Them's public search results only, not from other sites or public records.
That's Them also does reverse phone and email lookups, so check those after the opt-out, not only your name.

What That's Them shows

That’s Them describes itself as a 100% free people-search site, and it goes beyond names and addresses: it offers reverse lookups by phone number and by email address. That makes it useful to anyone trying to put a name and home address to an email address, the step a targeted phishing or harassment campaign needs.

Step 1: submit the opt-out form

As of October 2026, the opt-out page reads like this:

Open thatsthem.com/optout. The page describes it as a request to remove your personal information from the site’s database.
Fill in every field. All are marked required: full name, street address, city, state, ZIP code, email and phone.
Submit. A “Request Submitted” message appears.
Watch for the confirmation email. That’s Them says requests are typically processed within 72 hours and that you will be emailed once it is complete.

The form does not ask for a government ID, and the page does not describe any further identity check beyond the confirmation email.

Every field is required

Unlike some sites, That’s Them makes the phone and email fields mandatory. Use the phone number and address that its listing already shows for you, so the request matches, rather than adding a number it may not have. For the email field, use the address you are trying to unlink, or an alias if the listing does not show one.

Step 2: check every kind of lookup

After three days, search That’s Them by your name, your phone number and your email address. The opt-out page says the request removes your data from the site’s public search results. If one of those lookups still shows you, submit the form again using exactly the details that result shows.

The page is also clear about the limit: opting out does not affect data held by other services or public records. Your next stops are the free sites in our data broker opt-out list, starting with FastPeopleSearch and TruePeopleSearch.

If your email address is what is being searched, the longer-term fix is to stop using it everywhere. Our guide to email aliases explains how to give each site its own address.

If you would rather not keep checking

Compare options in data removal services compared. California residents should also file the state’s free DROP request.

Common questions

How do I opt out of That's Them?

Fill in the form at thatsthem.com/optout with your full name, street address, city, state, ZIP code, email and phone, and submit. That's Them says requests are typically processed within 72 hours and confirms by email. It is free.

Does That's Them need my ID to opt out?

No. As of October 2026 the opt-out form asks for name, address, email and phone, and does not ask for a government ID.

Does a That's Them opt-out remove me from other sites?

No. That's Them's own page says the opt-out does not affect data held by other services or public records. Each people-search site needs its own request.

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